A woman’s labia minora (the lips) of the vulva, which stretch on each side of the vaginal opening from the clitoral hood to the perineum, come in all shapes and sizes. There is a large span of normality in size, ranging from small strands to larger “elephant ears”. The fact that something is in the range of normality doesn’t mean that you as an individual are comfortable with the size and appearance. Just as the size of your nose or breasts may make you unhappy, the same can be true of your labia.